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And it was 3 months later. I am a bonding type of person, want to know my partner intimately and share my life with him, so no way will I do NSA sex. For some, just the fact, that the guy was clearly not interested in them as a person, but more like a sex object, caused them to feel used regardless of their consent even if sex was physically satisfying for them.

I haven't read the above article regarding male oxytocin release during sex, but in another one earlier I did read that the testosterone if released in large amount will counteract the released oxytocin - and hence certain males will not bond via sex whereas women do not have this "defense". Stereotypes are not the full picture, I agree.

And for the same reason I also do not like some men writing about their need for casual sex as a generalised, all men's dream of thing. Non-functioning, boring, sexless, etc. PUA community using tools of a sociopathic narcissist's mindset to basically rape women some using covert hypnosis, young, gullible, undereducated, psychologically troubled etc. The difference I see between this and roofying someone, that with the drug it is more provable that abuse happened.

One of the terms in PUA lingo clearly describes this: Some PUA gurus after a while get more chilled and end up in monogamous relationships but by then they contributed to tremendous abuse directly and indirectly for female victims as well as their customers.

Looking at Maslow's hierarchy, sex is a fundamental. Looking at health-focused research, sex is healthy and necessary. What do you do if you are alone?

After one year with no one-on-one sex, I decided to try a casual arrangement. From the first, it was wonderful. There are no undercurrents, and each of us can get out at any time, no questions asked.

I am very happy. I am 54 and he is If women can be choosy about the height, physical appearance, and wealth of their casual sex partners, why shouldn't men be choosy about the past sexual conduct or "morals" of their potential long-term relationship partners? The so-called "double standard" works both ways. The simple fact is, women these days have more options and more choices than men. That's why heterosexual bars and clubs have "ladies night" instead of "men's night".

The women, not the men, get to do the choosing. At closing time on ladies night, a group of average, slightly shy, somewhat short men are sitting alone at the bar while the women have left with all the big, tall, square jawed athletic looking guys with big feet- the same guys who went home with different women after the last ladies night.

That's fine- we all should have the freedom to make our own choices, but we also have to face the consequences of our actions. I would like to point out that young boys don't dream about growing up and marrying girls for who they are sexual partner number 25 any more than daddy wants his little girl to grow up to be a porn star. And no amount of hypocritical, self-righteous "feminism"- short of a totalitarian "Brave New World"- is going to change that dynamic.

While I don't approve of that group's behavior, I do think that what they are doing cannot in any way be compared to "rape" as you suggested. Lying maybe, but rape, no. What you are implying is that women are too stupid to make their own choices or to see through childish head games.

As someone who believes in the mental equality even superiority of women, I find your suggestion appalling. If a woman feels "used" afterwards, perhaps that's a sign that she should be more choosy, or even delay a sexual involvement for some time until she's sure about the man's intentions.

I'ts sad that women are falling for that sort of thing, but they made a choice, so live and learn. I think a lot of frustrated guys who lack self confidence, good looks, or stature are likely to try the "PUA" methodology, because they've felt rejected or hurt by women, and also they see the blatant hypocrisy in women's sexual behavior.

By hypocrisy, I mean the way women promote the idea of a finding a loving, committed partner i. The popularity of "PUA" tricks shouldn't be any more shocking than that of "penis enlargement" gimmicks which don't work; these industries prey upon gullible men with deep seated insecurities, fears which are often amplified by women's actual behavior. The first glaringly problematic comment the author made, is that "in my personal experience, most women cannot have casual sex without feeling hurt if the other person doesn't call back and has no intention of doing so.

It is obvious from that sentence, that the author is butt-hurt about a guy Feeling ashamed of herself, she decided to extrapolate her experience to mean "most women must feel this way since that is how I feel. I do not understand how one author's personal butt-hurt made it into a renowned magazine about Psychology as a general guideline.

I assure you, as a man, it is equally obnoxious to hook up with a girl you like and have her never show up again or call you back. It is a silly double standard to assume that women do not do this to men as well, to assume women do not sport-fuck you for a notch on their belt, because many of them will and you will not know about it until afterwards. I also take issue with the whole "if she has to drink to have sex, maybe she shouldn't be having sex.

People drink to lower inhibitions and get laid. It just happens that way. Sex is fun when it's thrilling and has that "is this going to happen? A drunk man's inhibitions are not lowered any less than a drunk woman's, and for this reason I say I believe hooking up even when there is some form of attachment can be quite possible and, not only that, but very fulfilling. I am a young single mother and I have found that most of my relationships since my daughter was born, have been very short lived and meaningless.

There is one person who has become both, a friend, and a lover. He happens to be my daughter's father. We spend time as a family, but want nothing to do with a serious relationship between the two of us. We are simply two people who have a child together that occasionally share in a physically gratifying arrangement.

If either one of is were to want to settle, we are more than welcome to walk away, and if not, we are both perfectly fine in our situation. We can also feel free to hook up with other people if we so choose.

It takes away the awkwardness of having to share ourselves with new people if we didn't want to, plus we both know what each other likes and it is just easy and fun. The main problem with this article and many similar articles is the basic misinterpretation of oxytocin release. Yes, oxytocin is released during orgasm and is a factor for women becoming attached to men. However, that attachment is a sexual attachment NOT an emotional attachment. Having an orgasm, will make a woman want to have sex with that man again but it won't cause her to suddenly fall in love with him, want a committed relationship with him if she wasn't already , or become emotionally attached.

The main problem is that there's still an underlying assumption that women become emotionally attached from sex. As a result, what boys and girls are taught about sexual behavior and research on how men and women react to sex will almost always be interpreted from a biased viewpoint. An analogy would be if a crime was committed and the police automatically assumed from the start one man we'll call him Pete was the perp.

This would result in the police solely focusing on Pete, interpreting the evidence as proof of Pete's guilt ie the perp was a man I am 32 and female and have had 4 long term relationships 3 to 5 years though I really don't know why. I have zero desire to get married or have kids, never have.

When I am single, which I am now, I have tons of fuck buddies and nsa sex, and they almost never have alcohol or drugs involved. Ok, the occasional alcohol since bars are a good place to meet guys who want to hook up, but I don't get wasted. All of my relationships ended because I can't form proper emotional bonds to boyfriends and can't give them the love they need. I had to break it off with them.

So since I need sex I find men who I am completely honest with about my intentions: I may not want to see you again ever and if I do it'll just be for sex, I don't cuddle, I really don't want a relationship, and I'll be fucking other guys. I've only had one guy turn me down and we had already had sex a few times, it just took him a while to decide he didn't like that. I never feel ashamed or dirty or like what I did was wrong in any way. I also never feel any attachment to these guys.

I've considered that I may be a sex addict, but I'm always faithful while in a relationship. Just one girls experience.

I can't seem to find anyone else with similar experiences. I have an experience to be in no obligations relationship. I ended it in one month as it was impossible to keep myself completely dis attached emotionally from a man I liked and it was clear he was indifferent except for pure sex.

Both of us are mature adults having adult kids; we have our financial independence, yet, it was weird for me to agree acting like I was no human. I can honestly say that when I have ex with a man, I never want to see him again. If I like a man and we get along great, I don't feel a sexual attraction to him. If I do end up having sex with him, I never have anything to do with him again.

It ruins our connection as far as I am concerned. I love sex, don't get wrong but it doesn't evoke any emotions from me. It doesn't create a "bond" or any other connection to the man for me. To really enjoy sex, it has to be with a man I have only met once, maybe twice and then once we have committed the act I can't bear to think of seeing him again. I forgot to include in my original statement that I also cannot abide the "cuddling", the "afterglow" nonsense.

For me it's purely; Do the deed and get out. I prefer to meet where I control the fact that I immediately leave. I never let a man know where I live.

I know, the number is shocking and not something I'm particularly proud of but neither am I ashamed by it. Yes is my answer, they can and the reason why my number is so high is because it's far too easy for women to. I can only speak for myself but I wouldn't say I'm a 'typical' female. I have a drink problem for one. Never know when to stop and have blackouts. Half the time I don't even remember how I 'pulled' the guy. I'm shy and awkward around men when sober but when drunk become this horny, seductive and flirty may I say it nympho vixen.

I don't sleep with men so they 'like' me. I do it because being sexually desired is intoxicating and alcohol makes me friggin horny. I'm a complete hedonist. I'm also terrified of commitment and intimacy. Men mean to me controlling, angry and hard work I know this isn't true and doesn't apply to the majority of men but once you've been traumatised as a child it's extremely difficult to change this view on an emotional level.

The irony is when I meet men and I tell them up front that this is a one off, I don't have anything more to give and let's just have a mutually pleasurable time - they then find me a challenge and start getting all serious. As I've got older I've fine tuned the experience. I light candles, have a sex playlist and love dressing up in sexy outfits.

The men always want to stay over and spend the night cuddling I do to, oxytocin is amazing! The trick is to make is mutually fun and not let anyone feel used. I make the men feel special and that's reciprocated. Women, it goes like this: That price is lower perceived value in the eyes of higher quality potential mates. And yes, that's a two-way street, except a man with many "conquests" becomes more--not less--desirable in the eyes of women who wrongly assume the Lothario must truly be someone special.

You are assuming that everyone spills their guts about their private lives to everyone they meet. If I were to begin dating a man, there is no reason for me to tell him anything about other men and I feel the same way about his other women. I care about the person I am meeting now, not the person that existed a year ago or 5 years ago. Not any of my business. What a misogynistic view to call it "whoring around".

Get out of the 18th century. At the beginning, you're putting your best foot forward, just as you would during a job interview, the function of non-hook-up dating. People have a right to their privacy, but if you're interested in sharing a future with someone, you're going to need to know what kind of person they are. In addition to what that "special someone" tells you, there are many ways to glean this, including observing their interactions with family, friends, strangers, etc.

While not guaranteed, past behavior and experience are the most useful in predicting current and future behavior. For some women, reading my comments is their first encounter with a voice who pulls no punches and tells it like it is. I take this responsibility seriously. If a woman sleeps around, she's probably going to remain on that wavelength. If it makes her happy, great. But generally speaking, a chippy doesn't make a good gf or wife the same way a Lothario won't make a decent husband.

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Why Do We Flirt by Text? Menopause and Your Sleep Cycle. World Cup Strategy and the Psychology of Success. Are You a Beautiful Questioner? Can Women Really Do It? Hookup culture is not for everyone. Submitted by Anonymous1 on November 20, - 1: I imagine that casual sex is more depressing for single women When comparing men and women, Submitted by Anonymous on July 7, - 1: The truth is that women are stigmatized and most men don't begin to qualify for stigma.

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So I guess free love is something fools try to find. Women have been having casual sex in all times, but it has been condemned by society and therefore kept under the "blankets" I am a mature woman of 45y, with 4 kids. This article repeats the same Submitted by Anonymous on June 19, - 6: I agree that many women can Submitted by Ruth C.

Older Woman Submitted by Anonymous on July 11, - 1: I take a few issues with this article. Trust me, it sucks. That article is Feminist Garbage! I believe hooking up even Submitted by Anonymous on February 13, - 2: Oxytocin misinterpreted Submitted by Anonymous on June 28, - 5: My experience Submitted by Anonymous on October 5, - No attachment sex Submitted by H20Gerl on July 24, - I am a curious, funny, creative, quirky, snarky, thinker. I love to learn and if I can have a conversation where I learn something new or am able to see things in a different way - win!

I don't mind a friendly debate and will stray into politics, religion, and sex. If we don't agree, I won't hold it against you. I am looking for a fellow intellectual who can write. Not text-speak, but really string a few sentences together that actually have a point to them. Spelling and punctuation must be pretty good. I don't care about typos or some misspelled words but if you don't know the difference between "your" and "you're" I am too picky and will find that distracting. Same with "there', "their" and "they're".

Seriously, the way some people write now makes me wring my hands and reach for my smelling salts. I have no preference for age because I have had fascinating conversations with people of all ages - just no teenagers, I already have one of those to converse with. I don't care where you are from or what you look like.

In fact, I never understood the posts that say: If it is all done in cyber space, who cares? I know a lot about a few things and a little about a lot. I have great stories.

If you want to exchange ideas, trade funny stories, hold a mirror to yourself, give me feedback or e-hang out, drop me a line.

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Not text-speak, but really string a few sentences together that actually have a point to them. Spelling and punctuation must be pretty good. I don't care about typos or some misspelled words but if you don't know the difference between "your" and "you're" I am too picky and will find that distracting.

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Nsa fun girlfriend experience

Nsa fun girlfriend experience

Nsa fun girlfriend experience